“The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this: love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love.” Stephen Kendrick, The Love Dare
Falling in love was the most amazing thing that has happened to me. Prior to falling in love I was determined that I was not ready for a relationship however in life phenomenal things happens instead of opposing it I embraced it. Everything just fell into place and I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. It’s amazing to see how someone that was a stranger to you can become such a great impact in your life. The love I have for him is unconditional, a love where I can completely be myself and he’s completely okay with that. I personally do think that unconditional love is the key to any relationship. So today I am going to be talking about unconditional love.
I personally do think that you will be completely happy with your relationship when you can be with someone and still remain fully yourself – as a person you like and respect. Being in love with my boyfriend is an amazing on going experience, he loves me as I am and I love him as he is. But that doesn’t mean that we are the same people, me and him do have our differences but the unconditional love lets you embrace these differences.
Unconditional love is caring about the happiness of the other person without having any thought of what we might get for ourselves. It’s unconditional love when other people care about our happiness unconditionally. We can be certain that what we’re receiving is unconditional love when we make dumb mistakes or fail to do what the other person wants but they don’t seem to be disappointed. I have moments like this all the time, I have times where I tell him you probably want to strangle me right now but instead here you are dealing with me.
I can literally go on and on about unconditional love. The love we have for our parents and family is unconditional with no doubt but when you fall in love with someone you want to create a whole future with, that`s something different. So go ahead and fall in love with someone unconditionally and I promise you that it is the most amazing experience ever. Falling in love unconditionally lets you love the person even when they are not lovable and in spite of their imperfections and mistakes.
Forever spreading happiness, Kopika